As a woman, Lonisa Mari – specifically. If I open up, tell a man that I:

Have A Need

and directly ask for help. & that man says: …

“I got you.”

Asks no questions, delivers fully without complaint -> oooh weeeeeeee!

That feels like “love”. I’m not talking lust.

There is a trust that builds in moments of being held in my vulnerability.

I’ve had some men do that in my life – I appreciate it in my core.

I need men.

I love men.

I don’t subscribe to this “I’m so independent – forget men” narrative.

I want to be fruitful and multiply in all areas of life.

I appreciate the structure men carry and how they can be a container for me to fill up spaces.

Can you hold the weight of my presence?

May I bloom in your greenhouse?!?

Provision & population – in harmony.

Partnership with men is needed. Healthy men – preferred.

Ladies – find a way to show appreciation for the men in your life who deliver. Just like how you keep a to do list – rattle off that ” I see you showing up” list to your man and/or the men in your life.

Men – If you operate this way – thank you. You are seen and valued even if the message hasn’t been delivered to you. Hugs.

Before I go! Here are 10 things I’m thankful for from 6/2/2026. I highly recommend you get into a gratitude practice. It will help you to see the gifts in the present! God is moving in your life.

Stay playFULL,

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