Ladies!
Date your own self.
Don’t wait for a man to take you out on the night of your dreams.
Give yourself one first!
How are you dating yourself?
My most fulfilling evening date was a 2k investment in my own company.
A man taking me out on a 1 evening, non mattress meeting date needs to top what I do for myself.
For that solo evening date, I purchased a new gown, had mani & pedi, hair done (including trim), eyebrows done, scheduled 2 private drivers (door to door drop off), had a private dinner table, and enjoyed a world class performer from a front row balcony in a classic theatre.
My first driver had the proper temperature setting, offered me water, had a charger for me to use, and inquired on my musical preferences. He handed me his ipad and let me select my music:
“This Music May Contain Hope” – Raye
Played the whole album.
& get this, my final driver of the night was an entrepreneur (millionaire). Just driving to pass the time. He spent the ride explaining his business in detail. He gave me great insights such as what is required to thrive in that business, what to avoid, and his systems. That 1 hour drive became a masterclass; it had me thinking of starting something similar.
I encouraged him and continued asking him questions.
Towards the end of the ride:
He inquired about my relationship status:
I kept it mysterious.
Not all who are curious can properly hold this – Lonisa Mari.
Before answering such questions -> self – reflect:
- Is he a safe container for my full essence?
- Can he top the way I love myself, right now? If so, how?
- How does he modify his environment for my highest pleasure?
- Will he expand my knowledge base?
Let that help you decide if he can take up space or must get out of your face.
We’re absolutely not going to his place (or having him at ours).
Like Raye sings – ” Girls stay safe out there best to stay prepared”.
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RAYEsed Barz,
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