If you were raised with the line:

What goes on in this house stays in this house?

Hugs for …

what you have held in for the sake of image.

That line should be retired.

It promotes secrecy and toxic cycles.

It puts unnecessary burdens on children.

If the ish going on in the house is off – run and tell that ish.

I get keeping family business – family business – but in some cases – that ish be too serious for internal handling.

If You’re The One Saying It…

Now, if you’ve found yourself saying that line – take space to identify what you’re covering up and bring it into the light. It can be made “right”.

Love you,