Hear me. You have one life to live. Be intentional on how you want to live it. Protect it because not many will make it their business to protect you – I don’t care what title or role they have/had. This makes way for :

Life To Treat You Well

Wake up & love your own self.

For so long, I allowed my real self to not fully expand because I was concerned on who was holding my hand. All the while not holding myself, keeping myself back from stepping into my kingdom inheritance:

The Land Of Overflow

I’m here now and have crossed the threshold just a little bit & my goodness I am amazed! I just unlocked a talent that made me feel:

Purposefully Aligned

In this land, I do not allow disrespect to go unchecked or to take up residence.

In “Egypt”, I allowed myself to experience continual abusive behavior, including verbal and emotional attacks, threats, sexual misconduct, and physical violence. This created feelings of extreme unease with trusted persons and in spaces that should’ve been “safe”. Including, but not limited to my childhood residence, but my own home as an adult.

I was allowing my true self to become deflated, very slowly over the span of years. Giving way for others to over expand in such a way that impacted my inner well-being.

I take full accountability for what I permitted not just from one person, but many in different capacities.

Thankfully, God is the ultimate flipper! I took the painful experiences as confirmation of my extreme value; using them to set boundaries and propel myself into higher levels of strength!

No more hiding abuse!

Not even for the sake of family and keeping up “appearances”.

People have a way of showing their dark side, disappearing, and/or trying to damage you -> when you appear lifeless. Never expecting that you will fiercely emerge with:

Lush, expansive thornfully protected blooms!

I loved ones that inflicted harm by gracefully letting go, as they demonstrated interest in that outcome. In some cases, it was temporary and in others, permanent position shifts.

May all these loved ones thrive and experience an abundance of God’s blessings.

Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. 1 Peter 3:9

I have forgiven and will do so continually as I heal. It’s important to understand that:

… we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12

The “enemy” may have tried to cut me down, but I am standing tall – firmly anchored in Jesus. I fought hard to get here. My dramedy filled scars and healing wounds testify to this. I look forward to serving out of them to enrich the lives of others.

Do not take God’s patience and grace to mean he condones abuse.

“Do not touch my chosen people, and do not hurt my prophets” 1 Chronicles 16:22 & Psalm 105:15

I’m victorious and more than an overcomer through Jesus who is walking me through transforming:

Trauma To Triumph!

Anyone who wants to enter my land of overflow, gets a permit until I adequately test to see if they are a long term fit. Permanent stays are very limited. Even then, regular audits will be conducted.

Everyone deserves to live their one life, according to their communicated standards.

As for me, Lonisa Mari, I do not permit the below through any communication channel:

• Degrading Language and Threats
• Verbal Abuse and Mocking
• Emotional Abuse and Manipulation
• Dehumanization
• Belittling and Objectification
• Insults and Derogatory Labels
• Encouragement to self harm and commit suicide
• Deliberate Cruelty
• Sexual Misconduct & Sexual Abuse
• Physical Violence

If any of the above occurs to myself and or/my children – it will be confronted and not swept under the rug.

Ones “position” or “title” does not yield an “overlook” or “exception”.

Many families, organizations, and communities – have a mountain heap of ignored toxicity rotting beneath luxury rugs.

Let’s take out the trash and be free at last.

Face yourself and face each other, address it, so we can individually and collectively walk forward unhindered from blockages.

Do you want to be set free via truth or stay chained by turning a “blind eye”?

Who are we to disregard another’s relational expectations?

Do we love ourselves enough to set boundaries to protect our wellness and that of those in our care?

How can we be a voice for the abused if we permit abuse personally?

You are worthy of emotionally safe love and reciprocal respect.

Do not allow what you wouldn’t want your children to experience.

Do not allow what you wouldn’t want your children to inflict.

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My sons, King Caleb & King Elijah, are being raised to not abuse others, specifically – women or children. They are being equipped to not tolerate abuse romantically.

My daughter, Queen Glory, is being raised to not abuse others, specifically – men or children. She is being equipped to never tolerate abuse, specifically romantically.

By faith, all three of my children will have healthy, God honoring marriages that will last until “death do us part”. Any and all word curses spoken over them will fall flat. Any and all abusive experiences they have witnessed will not take root and be used to break abusive patterns.

In Jesus name, Amen!

#generationalcursebreaker #generationalwealth

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Get out here and live your life with the boldness to defend it.

Protected & Prospering,